Long story short, I was on my girl's old computer that she asked me to see if I could fix for her. As I was deleting some files, I came across a folder that had some interesting looking videos in it. I took a look at a few videos and they were pornos. I was not surprised, because I know my girl has a freaky side. Cool. But then I took a look at one named "meandjalen" My heart dropped, cause I had an idea what it was. I had the decision to just delete it or take a look at it. Foolish me took a look at it. It was her sex tape with her ex. I was furious. I approached her, we argued and I just let it be. I'm still a little upset though. I see her in a whole new light now cause she wouldn't even consider doing anything like that with me. I know because I asked. What should I do from here?
Believe it or not, this is not my first time lending advice for this type of situation. What you need to do, and this works in most relationship situations, is put yourself in her shoes. Imagine if it were the other way around, and she found your sex tape. You may even have some now that she is unaware of, because you obviously are not opposed to it. Everyone has a past, everyone has a history. Your curiosity is normal, but your actions were unfair. The only reason you should have gotten upset is if it was during the time she was with you. If not, let her past be her past and worry about your future with her. Delete and move on.