How do you know when it is over in a relationship? I'm busy trying to convince myself that I am still attracted to my boyfriend, but I really think our future is in jeopardy. We have been together for 5 years, and i love him, but sex isn't the same.
Unfortunately, this is a very bad situation that you are in. If you ever have to question your feelings for your mate, then something is wrong and should be corrected immediately. I understand you may love him, but if the genuine love that once was isn't there anymore there's no other option but to evaluate the future and communicate to him that you need some time apart. And possibly that time apart will help you appreciate the relationship. If not, it is not meant to be.