Dear Dr. Knockboots,
I really don't know what happened to my girl. When I first met her, she took care of all my sexual needs, but after a while its like she got less freaky. I'm not sure if she got too comfortable or what, but I like the freak I had. She doesn't swallow, role play or anything anymore even when I suggest it. What am I doing wrong? Sex is boring now.
You really need to sit down and have a conversation with your girlfriend and find out why she isn't as comfortable sexually as she used to be. It may possibly be that she was never comfortable to begin with, but was trying to gain your acceptance. The most important thing as far as sex is concerned is a sense of comfort. Find out why and what changed from her mouth. Communicate with her what your wants are and if she truly feels uncomfortable, you may just have to accept that.