I want to start this off by letting you know I'm not a super jealous guy, but I am a smart man and I know I'm not bugging. With that being said, I think my girlfriend has a crush on one of my friends. Mind you, they've only met twice, but the first time she seen him, she asked me "who's that??" but not a regular "who's that?" I got this vibe from her that I didn't like. Immediately I turned to her and almost blacked out. My boy is a good looking guy, I know because chicks go crazy for him everytime we go out. So it's not far fetched for my girl to be attracted to him, but it still drives me crazy. Am I overreacting? I don't think I am. I think it was disrespectful, what do you think Doc?
I want to start off by telling you that you may be a super jealous guy. It sounds like you feel threatened by your friend's looks, which although quite normal, still no reason fro you to "black out" on your significant other. She may in fact be attracted to him, but until you know for sure and communicate your feelings, you will never know. One thing you don't want to do is accuse her. If she hasn't given you a reason to feel a way, then don't make it into a big deal. Give her the benefit of the doubt.