Recently I found out my girl slept with a celebrity crush of hers. I’m devastated and broke up with her. Unfortunately, that’s not the worse part. Everytime I hear this person’s music or see him on TV I have a feeling of hatred and resent, and its beginning to happen more and more often. I can’t avoid hearing his music on the radio, and I don’t know what to do. I imagine he would be difficult to confront.
Well, you made the correct first step and ended the relationship. Cheating is unacceptable, no matter who it is and I know your trust has been compromised. Unfortunately, it is with someone’s who’s image you can not avoid. This is a situation that will take some time to get over. In the meantime, avoidance isn’t the answer. Yes, he was intimate with your girlfriend, but it most likely meant nothing to him and he probably wouldn’t even remember who she is. The real one at fault is her and you have to make peace with the fact that she was untrustworthy and doesn’t belong in a relationship with you. Time will heal.