Hi Doc. I'm 23 years old and i think I have a fetish which may turn out to be a problem for me. As weird as it sounds, I think I have an addiction to videotaping and taking pictures while I'm having sex. This is an obvious problem because all my partners are not comfortable with that, although a surprising amount of girls are. Anyways, the bigger problem is that recently I have not been able to get aroused without filming our sexual encounters. I anticipate this being a major problem for both myself and my partner. I'm a trustworthy guy, but I know most girls won't allow that. What should I do?
This is a very unfortunate fact that you can barely get aroused without resorting to filming your sex partner, for obvious reasons. You have obviously been spoiled in your sex life to have been with so many partners that allowed this. That's the good news. The bad news is that for your sake, you need to find a new fetish that women are more susceptible to. Try different things with your partner. Explore different things that you can both mutually agree on. I'm certain you will find something that will arouse both yourself and your partner. Lay off the camerawork for a while Speilberg.